Dagboek van een nanny
- First published 2002
- 287 pages
- Dutch
For a college student in New York City, a job as a nanny for a wealthy Park Avenue family seems like the perfect arrangement. Known only as Nanny, she steps into the opulent world of Mr. and Mrs. X to care for their four-year-old son, Grayer. She quickly learns that behind the designer clothes and lavish apartment lies a reality far removed from any fairytale. With a father who is rarely present and a mother consumed by social obligations, Nanny becomes the primary figure in the young boy's life, navigating a list of absurd rules and the emotional fallout of his parents' neglect.
Based on the real-life experiences of two former nannies, the story exposes the dysfunctional dynamics of a family fixated on status. As the Xes' marriage begins to unravel and the demands on Nanny become increasingly impossible, she is pulled deeper into their private lives, forced to confront the stark contrast between their immense privilege and their emotional poverty. This novel is a sharp and poignant look at modern-day servitude, the complexities of family, and the discovery that in a world where you can have everything, you might not have anything that truly matters.
Based on the real-life experiences of two former nannies, the story exposes the dysfunctional dynamics of a family fixated on status. As the Xes' marriage begins to unravel and the demands on Nanny become increasingly impossible, she is pulled deeper into their private lives, forced to confront the stark contrast between their immense privilege and their emotional poverty. This novel is a sharp and poignant look at modern-day servitude, the complexities of family, and the discovery that in a world where you can have everything, you might not have anything that truly matters.
What readers say
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392K ratings across the web 5 in 10 readers loved it, 2 didn't like it
Many readers found "The Nanny Diaries" to be a thoroughly absorbing and entertaining read, often described as a light, fast-moving story. It is frequently praised for its witty, sarcastic, and observant writing, offering a humorous yet often heartbreaking glimpse into the lives of the super-rich in Manhattan from the perspective of their hired help. Reviewers appreciated the authentic portrayal of the challenges faced by nannies, often based on the authors' own experiences, with some finding it a truthful reflection of reality. The book is lauded for its strong bond developed between the nanny protagonist and her young charge, which many found touching and heartfelt. Some readers even preferred it over similar books, highlighting its concise nature and engaging narrative that kept them turning pages quickly.
Despite its positive reception from some, a significant number of readers expressed strong criticisms. Common complaints include the protagonist's perceived lack of a backbone, dignity, and self-respect, as she often endures mistreatment without directly confronting her employers, leading to frustration for many. The wealthy parents are frequently described as flat, unrealistic, self-absorbed, and deplorable characters, making the reading experience tiring or even infuriating for those who found their neglect and selfishness too extreme. Some reviewers felt the plot was predictable and unimaginative, resembling a "laundry list of incidents" rather than a coherent novel, and that the narrative voice could be whiny or preachy. The ending, in particular, left some dissatisfied, feeling it lacked a truly cathartic confrontation or a satisfying resolution, and that the overall message could be seen as vilifying successful women.
"The Nanny Diaries" ultimately delivers a mixed but impactful reading experience, often sparking strong emotional reactions, from laughter to sadness and anger. While it won't appeal to those seeking deep literary merit or nuanced character development, it is a compelling read for those interested in a satirical exposé of the opulent yet often emotionally barren world of Manhattan's elite. Readers who enjoy stories that offer a peek behind the curtain of privilege, or narratives focusing on the unique bond between a caregiver and a child despite challenging circumstances, are likely to find this book engaging. It serves as an entertaining, albeit often frustrating, commentary on modern-day servitude and the complexities of wealth, parenting, and personal integrity.
Despite its positive reception from some, a significant number of readers expressed strong criticisms. Common complaints include the protagonist's perceived lack of a backbone, dignity, and self-respect, as she often endures mistreatment without directly confronting her employers, leading to frustration for many. The wealthy parents are frequently described as flat, unrealistic, self-absorbed, and deplorable characters, making the reading experience tiring or even infuriating for those who found their neglect and selfishness too extreme. Some reviewers felt the plot was predictable and unimaginative, resembling a "laundry list of incidents" rather than a coherent novel, and that the narrative voice could be whiny or preachy. The ending, in particular, left some dissatisfied, feeling it lacked a truly cathartic confrontation or a satisfying resolution, and that the overall message could be seen as vilifying successful women.
"The Nanny Diaries" ultimately delivers a mixed but impactful reading experience, often sparking strong emotional reactions, from laughter to sadness and anger. While it won't appeal to those seeking deep literary merit or nuanced character development, it is a compelling read for those interested in a satirical exposé of the opulent yet often emotionally barren world of Manhattan's elite. Readers who enjoy stories that offer a peek behind the curtain of privilege, or narratives focusing on the unique bond between a caregiver and a child despite challenging circumstances, are likely to find this book engaging. It serves as an entertaining, albeit often frustrating, commentary on modern-day servitude and the complexities of wealth, parenting, and personal integrity.
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Details & editions
- This edition
- Bruna Uitgevers, A.W, 2004
- ISBN
- 9789046141106
- Language
- Dutch
Original edition The Nanny Diaries Originally published in 2002 · English · Random House Audio
