Modern Romance

For a generation that swipes, texts, and clicks its way toward connection, the path to finding love has never been more complicated. Single people today have more romantic options than at any point in human history, yet frustration and anxiety are common. This book tackles the pleasures, perils, and puzzles of contemporary dating by combining the sharp, observational humor of comedian Aziz Ansari with the rigorous research of sociologist Eric Klinenberg. They launched a massive research project, conducting hundreds of interviews and focus groups across the globe, from Tokyo to Wichita, to understand how the search for a partner has fundamentally changed.

This is not a traditional guide to dating; it is a thoughtful, often hilarious, investigation into our modern romantic lives. The book explores the shift from seeking a stable partner to searching for a soul mate, the paradox of having endless choices, and the new social norms created by our digital devices. By blending personal stories with cutting-edge social science, it provides an insightful tour of our new romantic world. It reveals why we behave the way we do and offers a new perspective on the timeless quest to find a deep connection with another person.