Pourquoi pas nous ?
- Language
- French
- Published
- 2023
- Publisher
- POCHE JEUNESSE
- Pages
- 384
- ISBN
- 9782017213475
Arthur, a hopeless romantic visiting New York for the summer, believes in grand, Broadway-style love stories, convinced the universe has a plan for him. Ben, a New Yorker grappling with a recent breakup, thinks the universe should mind its own business. When their paths collide in a chaotic, unforgettable moment at a post office, it feels like destiny. But a sudden separation leaves them wondering if that chance encounter was a beginning or merely a fleeting spark.
As they navigate the sprawling city, searching for each other and attempting to recreate that initial magic, Arthur and Ben find themselves caught in a series of near misses, awkward first dates, and the messy realities of falling for someone new. This story explores whether fate is truly at play or if love requires more than just a cosmic push. Discover if two different boys, brought together by an improbable moment, can truly make a relationship work before their time runs out.
As they navigate the sprawling city, searching for each other and attempting to recreate that initial magic, Arthur and Ben find themselves caught in a series of near misses, awkward first dates, and the messy realities of falling for someone new. This story explores whether fate is truly at play or if love requires more than just a cosmic push. Discover if two different boys, brought together by an improbable moment, can truly make a relationship work before their time runs out.
- Themes
- LGBTQ+ › GayLGBTQ+ › Queer Love
- Where and when
- New York City
Original edition
Wat als dit het isOriginally published in 2018 Dutch Blossom Books
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The universe, Arthur believes, is a grand Broadway production, constantly setting the stage for show-stopping romances. So, when he, a summer intern from Georgia, finds himself on a coffee run in New York City and spies a boy mailing a box of his ex's belongings, a boy with an undeniable spark, Arthur is certain this is his cue. He follows him into the post office, their eyes meet, and a hopeful, awkward conversation sparks. But then, as if on cue from some mischievous stage director, a flash mob erupts, and in the joyous chaos, the boy vanishes, leaving Arthur with nothing but a discarded mailing label and a heart full of what-ifs.
That vanishing boy is Ben, a native New Yorker navigating the wreckage of his first serious breakup and the drudgery of summer school. He's tired, a little cynical, and certainly not looking for a grand romance, especially not one that begins with a quirky stranger and ends in a blur of dancing bodies. Yet, the encounter leaves an imprint, a lingering curiosity about the boy he lost in the crowd. While Ben confides in his best friend, Dylan, about the frustrating day, Arthur, fueled by a theatrical sense of destiny, embarks on a modern-day quest. Armed with the flimsy clue of his ex-boyfriend's name from the label, he dives into the digital labyrinth of social media, determined to find his missed connection.
Against the odds, and with a bit of online detective work and a strategically placed poster, Arthur and Ben find their way back to each other. Their reunion feels like a second chance, a serendipitous alignment of stars in a city known for its endless possibilities. But real life, they quickly discover, isn't quite as smooth as a Broadway script. Their first attempts at a date are a series of charming, often hilarious, missteps – an arcade date that brings back too many memories for Ben, a karaoke night that feels more like an audition than a budding romance. They decide to have "do-overs," a testament to Arthur's unwavering optimism and Ben's cautious hope.
As the summer days unfold, their connection deepens amidst the vibrant pulse of New York. They introduce each other to their worlds, Arthur's Broadway dreams and Ben's aspirations as a writer. They share laughter, vulnerabilities, and the messy realities of their lives, including Ben's lingering feelings for his ex, Hudson, which casts a shadow over Arthur's bright expectations. Arthur, so open and enthusiastic, sometimes struggles with Ben's more reserved nature, and the differences in their personalities create small, understandable frictions. Their families and friends become intertwined, adding layers of support and occasional complications to their burgeoning romance.
A significant crack appears when Arthur discovers Ben has held onto the box of his ex's belongings, a secret omission that cuts deep into Arthur's trust. The revelation leads to a painful, albeit temporary, separation, forcing both boys to confront their insecurities and the true depth of their feelings. It is a moment of raw teenage heartbreak, where the universe seems to be pulling them apart rather than pushing them together.
However, life has a way of intervening. A crisis involving Ben's best friend, Dylan, brings them back into each other's orbit, reminding them of the powerful bond they've formed. The summer, though, is fleeting, and the bittersweet reality of Arthur's impending return to Georgia looms large. They face the difficult conversation about what their relationship can be once distance becomes a factor.
On Arthur's last day in the city, Ben orchestrates a magical scavenger hunt, a trail of clues leading Arthur through all the places that marked their journey, culminating back at the post office where it all began. In that poignant spot, they make a difficult choice, agreeing to remain best friends, acknowledging the challenge of a long-distance romance at their age. Yet, the ending leaves a tender whisper of possibility, a suggestion that some connections are simply too strong to be fully severed. Even fifteen months later, the thread between them remains, taut with unspoken questions and the enduring wonder of what if.
That vanishing boy is Ben, a native New Yorker navigating the wreckage of his first serious breakup and the drudgery of summer school. He's tired, a little cynical, and certainly not looking for a grand romance, especially not one that begins with a quirky stranger and ends in a blur of dancing bodies. Yet, the encounter leaves an imprint, a lingering curiosity about the boy he lost in the crowd. While Ben confides in his best friend, Dylan, about the frustrating day, Arthur, fueled by a theatrical sense of destiny, embarks on a modern-day quest. Armed with the flimsy clue of his ex-boyfriend's name from the label, he dives into the digital labyrinth of social media, determined to find his missed connection.
Against the odds, and with a bit of online detective work and a strategically placed poster, Arthur and Ben find their way back to each other. Their reunion feels like a second chance, a serendipitous alignment of stars in a city known for its endless possibilities. But real life, they quickly discover, isn't quite as smooth as a Broadway script. Their first attempts at a date are a series of charming, often hilarious, missteps – an arcade date that brings back too many memories for Ben, a karaoke night that feels more like an audition than a budding romance. They decide to have "do-overs," a testament to Arthur's unwavering optimism and Ben's cautious hope.
As the summer days unfold, their connection deepens amidst the vibrant pulse of New York. They introduce each other to their worlds, Arthur's Broadway dreams and Ben's aspirations as a writer. They share laughter, vulnerabilities, and the messy realities of their lives, including Ben's lingering feelings for his ex, Hudson, which casts a shadow over Arthur's bright expectations. Arthur, so open and enthusiastic, sometimes struggles with Ben's more reserved nature, and the differences in their personalities create small, understandable frictions. Their families and friends become intertwined, adding layers of support and occasional complications to their burgeoning romance.
A significant crack appears when Arthur discovers Ben has held onto the box of his ex's belongings, a secret omission that cuts deep into Arthur's trust. The revelation leads to a painful, albeit temporary, separation, forcing both boys to confront their insecurities and the true depth of their feelings. It is a moment of raw teenage heartbreak, where the universe seems to be pulling them apart rather than pushing them together.
However, life has a way of intervening. A crisis involving Ben's best friend, Dylan, brings them back into each other's orbit, reminding them of the powerful bond they've formed. The summer, though, is fleeting, and the bittersweet reality of Arthur's impending return to Georgia looms large. They face the difficult conversation about what their relationship can be once distance becomes a factor.
On Arthur's last day in the city, Ben orchestrates a magical scavenger hunt, a trail of clues leading Arthur through all the places that marked their journey, culminating back at the post office where it all began. In that poignant spot, they make a difficult choice, agreeing to remain best friends, acknowledging the challenge of a long-distance romance at their age. Yet, the ending leaves a tender whisper of possibility, a suggestion that some connections are simply too strong to be fully severed. Even fifteen months later, the thread between them remains, taut with unspoken questions and the enduring wonder of what if.
What readers say
3.80
173K ratings across the web 6 in 10 readers loved it, 1 didn't like it
The book is widely praised for its charming and lovable main characters, Arthur and Ben, whose individual personalities are well-developed and relatable despite their flaws. Reviewers often highlight the strong representation, featuring gay protagonists (Arthur is also Jewish and has ADHD, while Ben is Puerto Rican), written by OwnVoices authors. This offers a welcome "post coming out" narrative and explores themes of identity, privilege, and cultural heritage. Many found the co-authorship seamless, with the two distinct writing styles blending effectively. The story is described as heartwarming, humorous, and inspiring, with a unique "missed connection" premise that leads to a realistic and often awkward portrayal of a budding romance, complete with supportive friendships and family dynamics.
Despite its strengths, several reviewers noted a significant lack of a strong plot beyond the central romance, leading to a feeling of the story being slow or meandering at times. A common critique is the perceived absence of chemistry between Arthur and Ben, with some finding their relationship unconvincing or forced, particularly in the initial stages. One character, Ben, drew criticism for his internal thoughts about Arthur and his treatment of him in certain scenes, which some readers found off-putting. Another frequently mentioned negative is the overwhelming number of pop culture references, particularly to musicals and fantasy franchises. While some enjoyed these, many found them excessive, cringeworthy, and distracting, occasionally feeling like they overshadowed the original narrative.
Overall, the book elicits a mixed but generally positive reception, often described as an entertaining novel with both ups and downs. The ending is a point of significant division among readers; some lauded its realistic and mature approach to young adult relationships, while others expressed disappointment over its departure from a traditional romantic conclusion. This book would likely appeal to readers who enjoy diverse contemporary romance, especially those who appreciate a realistic and sometimes messy portrayal of love rather than a purely fluffy one. It is particularly recommended for fans of the individual authors and those seeking queer coming-of-age stories that delve into character development and complex friendship dynamics, provided they don't mind a less plot-driven narrative and frequent pop culture allusions.
Despite its strengths, several reviewers noted a significant lack of a strong plot beyond the central romance, leading to a feeling of the story being slow or meandering at times. A common critique is the perceived absence of chemistry between Arthur and Ben, with some finding their relationship unconvincing or forced, particularly in the initial stages. One character, Ben, drew criticism for his internal thoughts about Arthur and his treatment of him in certain scenes, which some readers found off-putting. Another frequently mentioned negative is the overwhelming number of pop culture references, particularly to musicals and fantasy franchises. While some enjoyed these, many found them excessive, cringeworthy, and distracting, occasionally feeling like they overshadowed the original narrative.
Overall, the book elicits a mixed but generally positive reception, often described as an entertaining novel with both ups and downs. The ending is a point of significant division among readers; some lauded its realistic and mature approach to young adult relationships, while others expressed disappointment over its departure from a traditional romantic conclusion. This book would likely appeal to readers who enjoy diverse contemporary romance, especially those who appreciate a realistic and sometimes messy portrayal of love rather than a purely fluffy one. It is particularly recommended for fans of the individual authors and those seeking queer coming-of-age stories that delve into character development and complex friendship dynamics, provided they don't mind a less plot-driven narrative and frequent pop culture allusions.
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